Breast Pumping: Another Way to Nurse

We often talk about breastfeeding as a special, bonding moment between a mother and her baby, but not all breastfeeding journeys look the same. Some mothers choose, or need, to feed differently. Among them, many turn to exclusive pumping: breastfeeding without direct nursing, where breast milk is given by bottle instead.

Whether for medical reasons, comfort, the wish to share feeding responsibilities, or simply because it feels right for you, remember that exclusive pumping is a true form of breastfeeding!

That’s why here at Tajinebanane, we’ve put together everything you need to know, with kindness and care. 💌

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Is pumping still considered breastfeeding?

Yes, a thousand times yes.
Pumping your milk to give to your baby is still feeding your child with breast milk, and all its benefits. Even if your baby isn’t latching directly at the breast, the bond is there, the intention is there, and so is the breastfeeding.

Some moms make this choice from birth or after an initial breastfeeding start, others when returning to work, or due to challenges along the way. In every case, exclusive pumping is a valid and valuable form of breastfeeding. It is not a fallback solution. In short, breastfeeding with a pump is a full option in its own right. 🫶

How should you prepare when choosing a breast pump?

Let’s be honest: exclusively pumping requires a certain level of organization. To maintain a good milk supply, it’s generally recommended to pump as often as a baby would nurse, around 6 to 8 times a day, especially in the first months.

For some moms, pumping feels very instinctive. For others, it’s not always so simple, and getting support can really help, especially when going back to work or when you’re unsure about the best routine.

Our essentials for getting organized:

A good breast pump: ideally electric, with double pumping to save time. At Tajinebanane, we particularly love the Elvie pump, but you can also look into brands like Medela or MomCozy, which offer models designed with comfort in mind.
Regular pumping sessions, including at night in the early days.
Proper storage containers: sterilized bottles, freezer bags, etc.
A calm space and a supportive environment, whenever possible.
To make things easier, Tajinebanane has also created a milk storage magnet, with handy tips always within reach!

And most importantly: no guilt if you miss a session, top up with formula, or need help. You’re already giving so much — don’t be afraid to lean on support when you need it. 🫶

Will my baby easily accept a bottle of breast milk?

In most cases, yes!
But remember, the bottle isn’t the only option. If you’d like your baby to continue breastfeeding afterwards (for example, if you’re pumping temporarily), you can also offer milk with a spoon, cup, or syringe. These alternatives help maintain baby’s natural sucking reflex.

When it comes to bottles, it sometimes takes a few tries to find:

the right flow (slow flow is usually best),
the right milk temperature,
and the right timing.

No matter how it’s given, breast milk remains a comforting and familiar anchor for your baby.

You can also make bottle-feeding a warm, bonding moment by holding your baby close, in your arms, just like breastfeeding.And if your baby refuses the bottle at first, don’t panic! Try another method (spoon, syringe, cup…) or have someone else offer it (like Dad). Patience and flexibility will be your greatest allies.

Can I pump long term?

Yes, absolutely.
Some moms continue for several weeks or even months. Others stop when the fatigue becomes too heavy, or when complementary foods are introduced (when baby starts having more than just milk in their diet).

Exclusive pumping can also be a temporary solution. For example, in case of illness or a course of antibiotics, pumping can allow you to continue giving breast milk to your baby while maintaining your milk supply.
The key is to listen to yourself. As long as it works for you and your baby, there’s no “ideal” duration.
Whether this journey lasts a few days, a few weeks, or several months, the important thing is to do your best while respecting your energy, your needs, and your reality. Find your balance — without pressure. 🤱

And what about bonding with your baby?

Sometimes people think exclusive pumping creates less bonding than nursing at the breast, but that’s not true.
Bonding doesn’t only happen through latching; it also happens through eye contact, cuddles, rocking, skin-to-skin contact, and so much more. In short, it develops through shared moments, smiles, the sound of your voice, comforting hands, and more.

Whether you feed your baby at the breast, with a bottle of breast milk, or in another way, the essential thing is that you’re meeting your baby’s needs with all your love. And that is what your baby feels most of all.

Need some help?

If you need personalized advice, don’t hesitate to contact a lactation consultant, a midwife, or a healthcare professional trained in breastfeeding. An online directory of IBCLC-certified lactation consultants is also available to help you find support near you.

In short, exclusive pumping is simply another way to nurse.
It can sometimes be more tiring, sometimes more demanding, but it’s also an incredible demonstration of dedication and adaptability. Whether you chose this path or it was imposed on you, know that you’re doing the best you can, and that’s already amazing. 💛

And if you ever need help or support, don’t hesitate to reach out to a lactation consultant, a midwife, or a pediatrician. You are not alone. 🤝

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Written by Bertrand Lamy
@ Tajinebanane